There are so many items to choose from out there when having a baby. I’m here to tell you that not every single item available to you is necessary. There are so many things you are certain to need and things you don’t. I have also mentioned a few things throughout this post that moms I know love having even though they aren’t dire needs when you have a baby!
First up:
- Baby Wash cloths and towels
We recieved a ridiculous amount of baby wash cloths and towels as baby shower gifts and I think we used maybe two. Why? Because regular wash cloths and towels work fine. Yes, baby’s skin is sensative and should be treated gently with soft items, but when you’re washing your baby you shouldn’t be srubbing their skin off. - On Brand Diapers
At your baby shower you will recieved a big variety of diaper brands. Use them all. However, when you run out and have to buy your first box, BUY STORE BRAND. I was so set on the cute Cloud Island diapers or Pamper’s Pure, but unless your baby has super sensative skin that severly breaks out when you dont stick to organics or a specific brand, don’t waste your money. I gave the Up&Up Target Brand Diapers a try because they’re more diapers for half the price and dude, they are the best diapers we have used yet and I wish there had been someone to tell me this from the beginning. Diapers are expensive and if you can get more bang for your buck, why would you not?? - Baby shoes
Baby shoes are overpriced and since they can’t walk until around 1 year old (usually), there’s just no need for them. We alwasy bought big, fuzzy socks when our son was small, so if it was cold and we were going out, warm socks it was. I really didn’t see the need to put shoes on children that have 0 use for them. Once he was able to walk, we started putting shoes on him. - A Changing Pad
Realistically, you just change your baby on the nearest surface and in whatever room in the house. You keeo diapers tucked everywhere and don’t trek all the way to the nursery every time you need to change a diaper. I find that changing tables or changing pads on dressers don’t make me feel good about my child’s safety and security. I used the one we had but only about a quarter of the time and would definitely classify it as a waste of money. - A Bottle Warmer
I just really think these are a wate of time. Some people swear by them, but I thought it was dumb. I recieved one in my Dr. Brown’s Bottle Gift Set (an amazing set of bottles and a great gift for anyone you know having a baby) and never ever used that item in the kit. The microwave was so much more convenient and practical. I know there are some people out there who are against microwaves so if you are one of those people a bottle warmed might be appealing for you, but I also had a baby that wasn’t particular about bottle temperature. He would drink it refrigerated, room temp, or warm. For my friends out there that want something SUPER easy that helps with making bottles and warming them check out the Baby Brezza. I know a girl or two who has gotten one of these and loved it. It’s more pricey and not a NEED, but from what I’ve heard, it’s worth it. As a mom who formula fed, this is something I wish I had and will splurge on if my next baby doesn’t breastfeed as well. Another I’ve seen floating around social media is the Dr. Brown’s Formula Mixing Pitcher which helps to mix formula and stays good in the refrigerator for 24 hours. These items are only for formula, not breastmilk.
Thanks for checking out this post! This little series was just something I thought I would do for fun. Again, not everyone is going to feel the way about what you need and don’t need, but this is how I felt about them and reaing articles like these always gives you a good jumping off point to figure out what you will choose to buy for your baby!
x Abigail